Getting married was always part of our website plan — we just didn’t expect to do it from separate countries.
When you’re in a relationship separated by distance, especially with military deployment, everything gets more complicated. Visa issues, travel restrictions, planning — even picking a date can feel overwhelming.
We wanted to start our life together. But a traditional wedding just wasn’t an option.
Then we found out we could have a legal virtual wedding.
At first, we thought it was only symbolic. But after researching, we learned that states like Utah legally support fully virtual marriages — with a licensed officiant and official paperwork — and they’re recognized across the U.S..
We decided to go for it.
Here’s how it worked for us:
- We uploaded our IDs and filled out a quick form.
- We scheduled our wedding time with an officiant who was licensed for online ceremonies.
- We invited our closest friends and family to join via Zoom.
- And when the day came, we joined the call, said our vows, and just like that — we were married.
I said “I do” from my apartment. My partner said it from their military base.
It was unforgettable. It was stress-free. And it was ours.
The officiant guided us through everything. The ceremony was quick, but powerful. And we received our certified marriage certificate immediately — no courthouse, no plane tickets, no headaches.
Since then, we’ve used our online marriage to handle joint bank accounts, and every agency has recognized it — no issues at all.
If you’re separated by borders, don’t wait. Online marriage is legal, and it’s a beautiful way to start your future — even if you’re not in the same place.
We’re proof that love doesn’t need borders — and that what matters most is the commitment.